FAQs
Answers to questions people ask most often about our programs.
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Intro to Judaism
Who attends the Miller Intro to Judaism Program?
Those who are not Jewish, but have always been a little curious. Those who are not planning to convert but are sharing their lives with Jews. Those who are considering conversion to Judaism. Those who have been Jewish in their hearts for years and want to make it official. Hebrew school drop-outs. Rabbinical school wannabes. You.
Is this class for Jews too?
Absolutely! Whether you were born Jewish but never quite learned what it was all about, you’re back after a long hiatus, or you’re just looking for a deeper understanding of your heritage, most of us could use a bit of a refresher. Jews from all walks of life enroll in the program: from people who had a Jewish day school education to those whose strongest connection was the annual box of matza on the kitchen counter.
What if I’m not planning to convert?
We are an Intro to Judaism class, not just a conversion program. Some of our students are thinking about becoming Jewish. Some are just interested in learning more. Some are already Jewish. We are eager to meet you wherever you are on your spiritual journey. We will never pressure you to convert.
Is the program friendly to LGBTQ individuals and couples?
Of course! The Intro Program welcomes all those who want to learn and experience Judaism with us.
How does it work if I want to convert to Judaism?
Completion of the Intro Program fulfills the basic learning requirements for conversion to Judaism. However, it is just the first step in the journey. Each candidate for conversion needs a sponsoring rabbi, who will work with you individually to determine what additional steps you will take to officially become a part of the Jewish People. Every person is different, and every conversion journey is unique.
* Please note that your sponsoring rabbi must be from the community in which you live. We believe that becoming Jewish is inseparable from becoming part of a Jewish community, so we are unable to provide “distance conversion.” We are happy to help you connect with a great sponsoring rabbi in your area. We love being “match-makers.”
In that case, I’m looking for a rabbi to sponsor me for conversion. Can you help?
Yes! For those planning to convert, think of the Intro Program as a personal concierge service for your whole journey into Judaism. We will help you find a local synagogue and sponsoring rabbi, and for those in Southern California, we will assist you in arranging your Mikvah (ritual pool) and Beit Din (rabbinic court) appointments. Finding your way into the Jewish community can feel overwhelming, but we’re always here to help.
What topics do you cover?
Classes cover Judaism’s biggest and most inspiring ideas as well as the nuts and bolts of daily Jewish living. Over 18 weeks, we’ll cover history, holidays, practices, texts, and values, and we’ll tour a Mikvah (ritual bath), hear from a Holocaust survivor, hold a model Passover seder, and more. In addition, we’ll start with Aleph-Bet (Hebrew alphabet) and either teach you to read or help you brush up on your Hebrew skills.
I’m in a relationship with / engaged to / married to / it’s complicated with someone who is Jewish already. Should they come to class with me?
YES! We strongly encourage couples to attend the classes together and share in this powerful, transformative experience. Most couples report that attending class together sparked inspiring and important conversations and brought them closer together.
Are you Reform, Conservative, Orthodox, or what…?
The Intro Program is pluralistic and open to the whole community. Many of our students and alums consider themselves Conservative, Reform, Reconstructionist, Orthodox, or “just Jewish.” Affiliate partners and institutions teach our curriculum from across the Jewish spectrum. As we see it, our job is to help people become the Jews that they were meant to be in the world rather than forcing them into any particular box or denomination.
We are proud that the Rabbinical Assembly (Conservative/Masorti) has officially adopted the Miller Introduction to Judaism Program as a highly recommended program for its communities. Read their announcement here.
I’m in a rush… Can I complete the class in less than eighteen weeks?
Yes. You can complete the Intro Program at your own pace by taking more than one class per week. You can also take your time — your registration is good for a whole year.
Just remember, if you are converting there will likely be additional requirements from your sponsoring rabbi. Talk to them about what timeline they require for completion of the conversion process.
What happens if I miss a class?
Almost everyone needs to miss a class from time to time. The Intro Program offers many simultaneous sessions all over Los Angeles. If you need to miss a class, it’s no problem to make it up at one of our other locations or in one of our other sessions. Just attend class at another time, get your instructor to sign a make-up slip, and you’re good to go.
Will my conversion be recognized in Israel?
If you converted outside of Israel through a Jewish community that is recognized by one of the major international Jewish movements (for example, the Rabbinical Council of America, the Rabbinical Assembly, the World Union for Progressive Judaism, etc.), your conversion will most likely be recognized for Aliyah*.
While Orthodox, Conservative, and Reform are accepted for Aliyah, the reality is very different. Under pressure from the Rabbinical Authority of Israel, the Israeli government is skeptical of conversions not performed within an Orthodox framework, especially if they were performed inside of Israel. As such, Reform and Conservative conversion cases often take months, if not years, to process and are more likely to result in a request for additional evidence or outright denial. This outcome can be challenged through administrative procedures or in court.
If you did not convert through a recognized Jewish community, your conversion may still enable you to make Aliyah. In this case, the Israeli Population and Immigration Authority will ask for information about the rabbi who supervised your conversion and the religious authority, if any, to which this rabbi belongs. You will be required to show nine months of participation in a recognized Jewish community post-conversion, and upon your move to Israel, you will receive a temporary residence visa. Your citizenship will be granted once you produce documents showing 21 months of post-conversion participation in a recognized Jewish community within Israel and abroad.
*Aliyah, or making Aliyah, in this context, means moving to Israel as a Jew.
Do your rabbis officiate weddings?
Yes, our rabbis do officiate weddings (as well as other lifecycle events). We would be glad to speak with you about celebrating life’s most meaningful moments. Please contact us at intro@aju.edu, to schedule a time to speak.
How do I register?
You can see all currently available courses and register for them here. Or you can call us at (310) 440-1250.
How much does it cost?
Our highly subsidized tuition is $475 for an individual and $650 for a couple, including digital course materials. If you don’t have enough for tuition right now, don’t panic. Through the generosity of various alumni and friends of the program, we make sure that no one is turned away. Call us to discuss payment plans and other options.
When is payment due?
You can pay online at the outset of the class, or you can make payments. Class tuition, minus a small tuition deposit ($125/person), is refundable up to the fourth week of class. You read that right! You can try us out for the first month; it’s basically risk-free.
Do you offer financial aid for tuition?
We offer payment plans for those who would prefer to pay over time. Scholarships are granted in certain cases only. Please email intro@aju.edu.
Mikvah
Who can immerse in the mikvah?
Any Jewish person of any age or gender identity can immerse at the AJU Community Mikvah. However, we require a guardian for those under 13.
I want to immerse my baby in the mikvah. How old do they need to be before immersing?
We have facilitated immersions for babies as young as 2 weeks old, though we recommend that you consult with your pediatrician for babies under 8 weeks.
Can I wear contacts or eyeglasses in the mikvah?
Contacts and glasses must be removed before immersing in the mikvah. If you need a prescription to read, please bring glasses with you. You can bring them into the mikvah, use them to read the blessings, and then place them on the side of the pool while immersing. If you wear contacts, we have contact cases and solution you can use to store them.
Do I need to remove nail polish?
Yes. Regular nail polish is not allowed in the AJU Community Mikvah. We do have nail polish remover and cotton balls, but please try to prepare before arriving. Gel and acrylic nails are okay.
Do gel or acrylic nails need to come off before immersing?
No, but please wipe them with nail polish remover before going into the mikvah. We will provide the supplies for this in our prep room.
I have a piercing that’s difficult to remove. Does it need to be taken out before immersing?
At the AJU Community Mikvah, it is fine to immerse with a piercing, especially if it would cause you harm to remove it. In general, the goal is to remove anything that separates you from the water. However, according to Jewish law, if you cannot remove a particular piece of jewelry, you can immerse after rotating it under the water. Likewise, acrylic nails that have been on for more than 30 days are considered a part of your body and do not have to be removed.
My friend wants to immerse right after me, really quickly, without making an appointment. Is this okay?
Unfortunately, no. We book appointments for an hour because immersing in the mikvah is a beautiful ritual that deserves spaciousness. We would hate for you to be rushed through this sacred process when you will get the most out of it by being in true ceremony. Additionally, every person who immerses in the mikvah is a cost to our facility, and that is part of why we ask that each person immersing has their own appointment.
I can’t afford the mikvah. What should I do?
Please ask your rabbi for financial aid resources. If this is unavailable to you or you don’t have a relationship with a rabbi, please let us know, and we will find a way to accommodate you.
Why does the mikvah cost money? Shouldn’t it be free?
While access to Jewish rituals should be free to all, the AJU Community Mikvah facility has costs associated with running it. Of the few open community mikva’ot in North America, all operate with fees. Our costs cover pool and facility maintenance, staff salaries, and general operational expenses.
Can a person with a disability immerse in the mikvah?
Yes. Those with disabilities can immerse in the AJU Community Mikvah. However, if they need assistance getting in and out of the mikvah or standing and immersing, they will need to bring a certified aide to assist them. Even if they cannot immerse fully or need to hold on to someone or something, they can still have a kosher immersion. The Mikvah staff are unavailable or certified as physical aides to people needing assistance. We do not have a Hoyer lift, so if they are in a wheelchair, we regret that we cannot accommodate them at this time.
Will you check my body before I enter the pool?
No. At the AJU Community Mikvah, we believe everyone should maintain bodily autonomy. We will explain what preparation needs to happen before the mikvah, but you will take care of the rest. Additionally, there is nothing that you can do to ‘un-kosher’ the mikvah. If you feel you are ready to immerse, you are ready.
Is the mikvah kosher?
The AJU Community Mikvah is kosher, as certified by Rabbi Ben Zion Bergman z”l, a global authority recognized for his knowledge of halakha (Jewish law). As the only pluralistic mikvah in the Pacific Southwest, we welcome Jews of all denominations to come and immerse themselves.
How far out can I book an appointment?
We book up to 90 days in advance.
How can I book an appointment?
You can schedule a session at AJU Community Mikvah here.
How many witnesses do I need for my immersion?
One non-related Jewish adult witness is needed for the conversion of an adult, a niddah session, or a pre-wedding appointment for a woman (also considered niddah). Three non-related Jewish adult witnesses (usually three clergy) are needed for the conversion of a child. For all other types of appointments, a witness is not necessary, but it is recommended.
How do I reschedule my appointment?
You can access your original confirmation email and click “change appointment” or call us at 310-440-1221.
I have more questions. Who can I talk to?
You can email mikvah@aju.edu or call 310-440-1221.
The Origin Story
Is this site only for people with Jewish ancestry?
No way! This space is for anyone curious about Judaism, whether or not you have Jewish roots. Maybe you’re in community or partnership with someone Jewish, or you simply want to learn more about Jewish history and traditions. No matter why you’re here, we’re glad to have you.
What if I don’t know much about Judaism?
That’s totally okay, and it’s why we’re here! Judaism is full of questions and exploration—it’s designed for curiosity. Our resources can help you understand Jewish history, culture, and traditions. Feel free to take our survey so we can better answer your questions.
Do I need to join the Jewish faith if I have Jewish roots?
You don’t need to convert or formally “join” to explore or connect with Jewish history or culture. Judaism values exploration. We encourage you to engage in a way that feels right for you. This space is here for you to learn and connect without any pressure.
How is Judaism more than a religion?
While Judaism is a religion, it’s also a culture, a peoplehood, a shared language, and a history. Jewish identity includes everything from foods and holidays to values, art, and storytelling passed down through generations. It’s a rich tapestry that doesn’t fit neatly into a single category. There are many paths to being Jewish!
What if I just want to learn without taking on a whole new identity?
No pressure here! You’re welcome to explore and learn as much as you’d like without the need to make any sort of commitment. Judaism has a long tradition of welcoming curiosity, and we’re here to provide resources for your journey, whatever that looks like.
What if I want to convert?
Converting to Judaism is a beautiful and meaningful journey for many people. While the process varies by community or denomination, it typically involves learning about Jewish history, traditions, and practices alongside building relationships with the Jewish community.
If you’re ready to convert, we recommend taking one of our Miller Intro to Judaism classes. Read all about it here, and let us know if you have any questions about how to get started. Classes are available locally and online.
The Partnership Project
(formerly Marriage for Life)
Do I have financial aid options?
We offer payment plans for those who would prefer to pay over time. Scholarships are granted in certain cases only. For more information, please email MaasCenter@AJU.edu.
Who is the facilitator?
The facilitator is a Licensed clinician, Dr. Niki Mostadim, who has been working with couples for over 20 years.
Who is the Rabbi?
Our rabbis rotate each time. To learn more about who will be the rabbi for the program date of your choosing, please check in with MaasCenter@aju.edu.
Are the meals Kosher?
Yes, there are two sessions of the series that include delicious Kosher food (certified by Kosher-LA). Your registration will include an opportunity to share dietary needs and allergies. For questions about accessibility or dietary needs, please contact the Retreat Logistics Coordinator, Jamie Stein, at JamiesEventsandWeddings@gmail.com or 818-620-0974
What does catering look like for those with strict diet restrictions?
We are extremely well-versed in catering to diverse dietary needs, including options for vegans, gluten-free, dairy-free, and a variety of allergies.
What is the Jewish observance/diversity?
We welcome couples from all areas of the spectrum of Jewish life, including multi-faith couples, Reform/Orthodox/Conservative couples, couples who identify as “just Jewish,” and beyond. Our program includes a Friday evening Shabbat session over Shabbat dinner, featuring a range of practices and traditional rituals, and we are proud of the diversity each couple brings. A rabbi is part of our retreat staff and is available for any questions throughout the weekend.
Do you offer an online Foundations course?
We do not currently have dates set for the online course. We do offer in-person programs at our AJU Familian Campus in Bel Air. For more information on the next upcoming program, please check our website or email MaasCenter@aju.edu.
What happens if I miss a session?
If you miss a session, we can arrange to have it recorded for you to watch later, provided you inform us in advance. However, we strongly encourage in-person attendance to fully benefit from the program.
What topics do you cover?
A. Insight into strengths and areas for growth in your relationship, including intimacy, communication, finances, lifestyle, family dynamics, and religion.
B. Effective communication tools for resolving conflict with respect and love.
C. Techniques to have meaningful conversations, manage expectations, and navigate “hot topics.”
D. Guidance on financial planning, including the emotional aspects of money.
Do you have to be Jewish to attend?
No, you do not have to be Jewish to attend the couples program. However, at least one partner in the couple must be Jewish to participate. The program is based on Jewish values and teachings, and one session includes Shabbat rituals during a shared Shabbat meal. The program aims to foster a sense of community for couples who attend.
How much does it cost?
$575 per couple
When is payment due?
You can pay online at the outset of the class, or you can make payments. Class tuition, minus a small tuition deposit ($150), is refundable up to 72 hours before the start of the first session.